In men, an orgasm is typically linked to ejaculation. The two physiological processes are intimately connected to each other – it’s an evolutionary thing that provides guys with stimuli to produce offspring. Did you know, however, that this physiological process can be modified?
Can men orgasm without ejaculating? The answer is positive. This is the so-called dry orgasm but it requires a lot of practice and effort in order to be mastered.
What Is A Dry Orgasm?
Usually, male arousal during intercourse will eventually lead to powerful contractions of the pelvic floor muscles. These contractions force semen out of the body during a process known as ejaculation.
It’s precisely the contraction of the pelvic floor muscles that leads to the pleasurable sensations guys get to experience during an orgasm.
A dry orgasm produces the very same feeling without the actual ejaculation. One of its best aspects is that since an ejaculation isn’t required to get an orgasm, men will become capable of climaxing multiple times during the same intimate session.
Yes, multiple orgasms aren’t reserved to women only!
While most men think that they can’t get the feeling of release without an ejaculation, this isn’t the case. Kegel exercises are used to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles.
Thus, the contractions will still take place but a guy will become consciously capable of holding the semen in.
Keep in mind that a dry orgasm isn’t the same as a medical condition known as retrograde ejaculation. In the case of this medical condition, an ejaculation does occur but the semen is released inside the body.
This could be a rather major issue, especially for guys who are attempting to get a partner pregnant.
How To Achieve A Dry Orgasm
Getting to a state of orgasming multiple times during a single sexual session and not ejaculating will necessitate patience and a lot of practice. If you’re willing to put the work in training your pelvic floor muscles, chances are that you’ll experience some of the most powerful orgasms in your life.
The theory is simple. You have to practice getting yourself to the edge without orgasming. The easiest way to accomplish the goal is to start with masturbation because it gives you a better opportunity for controlling your arousal.
Stimulate yourself until you can almost feel yourself coming. This is the moment you have to stop. At the same time, do a kegel exercise (squeeze the pelvic floor muscles and hold the contraction).
Once you feel the arousal subsiding a little bit, release the contraction and start stroking once again. Repeat the same routine a number of times.
If possible, try to get yourself closer to orgasm with each next repetition. The trick is to train the pelvic floor muscles in giving you a powerful contraction and holding the ejaculation in.
What To Expect When You Try It With A Partner
The first few times you attempt to orgasm without ejaculating during sex, you may experience failure. After all, masturbation and being with another human being are completely different. Don’t push yourself too hard and have fun.
There are a few possible outcomes in the very beginning. The most obvious one is orgasming and ejaculating. There’s nothing disappointing about it – just don’t give up with your training routine.
A second outcome comes in the form of a partial ejaculation. Usually, a little bit of semen will trickle out during your orgasm but the amount will be much smaller than what you’ll usually experience. That’s definitely a step in the right direction.
Finally, you will get to experience an orgasm without an ejaculation. For some guys, it takes a few practice sessions to get there. For others, the process will be lengthier.
What matters is that pelvic floor musculature strengthening will deliver the desired results.